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Empowering the Next Generation of Leaders
At Peers Not Fears, we believe leadership is for everyone. It’s not about titles—it’s about action, influence, and showing up fully in your own life.
Dive into our posts and discover how to empower your teen to grow into the leader they’re meant to be.
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Peer Leadership Program: When Students Take the Lead
At Peers Not Fears, we believe leadership isn’t something reserved for a select few — it’s something every student can practice. The work we do in schools and communities is about helping teens see themselves as capable leaders, and helping adults recognize that leadership can look quiet, creative, and even a little unconventional. Recently, I returned to The Founders Academy to reconnect with a group of peer leaders I had worked with previously. What I discovered that day g
Lorraine Connell
5 days ago3 min read


The Leadership Ripple: How One “Hello” Redefined What Everyday Leadership Means
Leadership isn’t always about big speeches or grand gestures. Sometimes, it’s in the quiet moments — the choice to say hello, include someone new, or step toward discomfort. This story from a middle school leadership program reveals the true heart of leadership: leading ourselves first.
Lorraine Connell
Jan 73 min read


The Courage to Ask for Help: Redefining Strength in Leadership and Community
For too long, we’ve equated leadership with doing it all alone. But true leadership means asking for help, inviting others in, and building stronger communities together. Learn how redefining strength through collaboration can transform the way we lead, parent, and grow.
Lorraine Connell
Dec 27, 20253 min read


Transforming Assessment: Unlocking Leadership Skills in Teens Through Authentic Learning
Traditional grades don’t always capture a teen’s growth or potential. Authentic assessments provide meaningful opportunities for students to build confidence, problem-solving skills, and leadership abilities that last a lifetime.
Lorraine Connell
Dec 3, 20252 min read


Navigating the School System When Your Child Has Been Labeled a Troublemaker
Learn how to support your child when school labels them “troublemaker” or “class clown” and help them grow beyond the label.
Lorraine Connell
Oct 30, 20253 min read


This is NOT Normal!
I wonder if we stop thinking that this is normal, or should be normal, would we stop trying to fix it, and instead make it a new normal?
Lorraine Connell
Mar 1, 20213 min read


'The System' - Barrier 1
If we limit our view of who can be a student leader, then we put up those barriers for students as their teachers.
Lorraine Connell
Jan 7, 20217 min read


Clearing the Path
Can I fix them all? Certainly not alone.
Can my blog offer ways we can fix the barriers? I hope - at least a little.
Lorraine Connell
Jan 3, 20213 min read


Gratitude
These moments were the start of something new for me, and I am grateful for those moments more than they will ever know.
Lorraine Connell
Nov 25, 20203 min read


Inequities of Remote Learning
I am one of four people in my household. My two boys are in elementary and middle school, and my husband and I are both teachers. For the...
Lorraine Connell
Nov 18, 20203 min read


Are we BREEDING Poodles?
I’ve been listening to the book by Sonya Renee Taylor, The Body Is Not an Apology. In the book, she discusses how we are constantly...
Lorraine Connell
Nov 11, 20203 min read
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